Why Good Friendships Are Worth the Effort

Today, I want to take a moment to discuss something that resonates with all of us at some point in our lives good friendships are truly hard to come by, and it’s so important to treasure the ones we have. If you’ve ever had a close friend or perhaps drifted apart from someone special, you’ll know precisely what I mean.

Last week, I finally caught up with a friend I’ve known for over ten years. Life often takes us in different directions, and it’s far too easy to fall into the trap of thinking we’re simply too busy to reconnect. But something made me realise I needed to reach out and reinvigorate this important friendship.

We spent time catching up over coffee, and I was reminded of how vital honesty, trust, loyalty, and integrity are in my closest relationships. Over time, friendships can drift, but making that small effort to reconnect can truly revitalise the bond.

I reflected on an experience with one of my oldest friends someone I’ve known for over thirty years. They’d been through some personal challenges and made life changing decisions, severing ties with many long time friends in the process. It made me realise that while we may not always agree with the paths our friends choose, we can still choose to accept them for who they are, cherishing the shared memories and enduring values.

Much like admiring Tiger Woods as a sportsman but not necessarily agreeing with his personal choices, I believe the same principle should apply to our friendships. I separate the person from the decisions they’ve made, valuing the journey and memories we’ve built together.

As I look back, it’s clear that while acquaintances and casual friends come and go, there’s only a small nucleus who stand the test of time those are the ones truly worth keeping. Even as life gets hectic and agendas shift, I believe we have a duty to nurture these special connections. We’re social beings, after all, and deep friendships are vital for happiness and well being.

Making the effort to reach out last week was hugely invigorating. Both of us felt it, and I was reminded that sometimes, all it takes is a little effort to make a big difference. So, if you’ve lost touch with a friend who’s brought integrity, trust and loyalty into your life, perhaps now’s the perfect moment to reconnect.

Thanks for joining me on this reflection and remember, stay positive, stay happy, and cherish those friendships that matter most.

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